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The Two Pillars of Dating Game

Game advice covers body language, tonality, humor, grooming, storytelling, touching, attitude, and teasing. There's dozens of topics and blogs focus on specifics like style or cooking. That's because game is like sports and can be discussed endlessly. But most game advice teaches just two things: being interesting and being cool. That's tight game. A man once told me all you need is "good chat" to get laid. For marriage-minded men, this foundation matters most.

What Being Cool Means

Being cool is not doing awkward things. This begins with eliminating weird mannerisms and body language problems and ends with having a presence people are drawn into. This is difficult to teach. I can tell a guy not to lean in or have feminine posture, but that's only half. The other half comes magically as his confidence rises and he starts banging women. It simply falls into place. For marriage-minded relationships, this coolness creates the foundation of respect and attraction.

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The Four Combinations

If you're interesting and cool then you're a man who has quality women or fucks a lot of girls. If you're only interesting you're a shlub landing homely Peace Corps girls. If you're only cool you get trashy skanks or club rats. If pretty girls aren't regularly attracted to you then you're not interesting and/or cool. Learning dating game is an indirect but necessary means to being interesting and cool. When you read a new line or routine, you're just mimicking the act of being one or both.

The Reality Check

Game knowledge won't fix fundamental deficiencies in your lifestyle, experiences, or social presence. You can memorize a thousand lines and still fail if you're boring or awkward. The cat is out of the bag on game advice and demand will stay strong forever because men always seek shortcuts. But there are no shortcuts. Being interesting requires actually having an interesting life with varied experiences worth sharing. Both come from real work, not fake routines.

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